Saturday, March 3, 2012

Sexual desire after childbirth




Sexual inhibition, shared by many women after giving birth, can respond to a cause. From birth, although it can occur even during the months of pregnancy, the baby goes to take the place of one object of desire for the mother.




This change experienced by women often express a disinterest in sex, but not always the case. Sometimes, it manifests with a decrease in the mood to talk, to be with the couple, working, and so on.

This can take several months, sometimes even years. It is time that the mother needs to "set" and regain its position as a woman. During this period, opening up to the couple and try to express what everyone feels, along with a mutual effort of understanding and affection, can help both to cope with the new situation.


If this stage of rehabilitation of women takes too long, it may end very seriously affecting the couple and child development because it makes their relationship with other people and objects, and his mother, to the extent that it keeps baby as their sole object of desire, little does the same with her.

Often, it is not easy to get out of this dynamic. Ideally, to detect the problem early and prevent chronic done.

If after a few months after birth, as well as the rejection of sex, the woman realizes that he has a fascination over by his son, who wears only want to be with him if he perceives a lack of involvement that previously attracted, if you notice that you always seem bad comments from her partner and that is becoming increasingly irritated with him, should reflect on what is happening and, if necessary, seek professional help.

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