In childhood, normal attacks
aggressively. The aggressive behaviors are behaviors that can cause unintended
harm, whether physical or psychological. Behaviors such as hitting others,
offend them, mock them, and throw temper tantrums or using inappropriate words
to call the other part of children's aggression.
When some children persist in
their aggressive behavior and are unable to control his strong temper, may be
frustrated causing suffering and rejection of others. According to experts, the
frustration and aggression makes an excellent breeding ground for aggressive
behavior that is developed in children.
Limits against aggressive child behavior
The child's aggressive behavior
is normal, but the challenge is to control it. Often causes the child to an
adult so he can act in place and control his aggressive impulses because it can
not do this. Therefore, the child needs a "do not do that" or
"for that." Children sometimes ask for a fight. It is as if a check
would borrow his father or his mother. Just as parents teach to walk, to talk
or eat, their children should be taught also to control their aggression.
How to control the aggressiveness
of the child
Be careful not to return their
aggression with other aggression. The social learning theory states that
aggressive behavior can be learned by imitation or observation of the behavior
of aggressive models. It is very important, for example, that the child has to
find a good model from their parents. Children relate to others in the same way
they do their parents. If they maintain a relaxed relationship with others, the
child will behave the same way in front of their friends. If the relationship
is rather hostile, probably the child will follow that pattern of behavior.
Educating children is a difficult
task that requires work. But it's worth trying it right, keep your balance and
build consensus among parents in the education of children not occur double
communication failures. If one parent allows everything and nothing else, that
will confuse the child and probably will rebel.
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