Thursday, March 15, 2012

The aggressive behavior of a baby


In childhood, normal attacks aggressively. The aggressive behaviors are behaviors that can cause unintended harm, whether physical or psychological. Behaviors such as hitting others, offend them, mock them, and throw temper tantrums or using inappropriate words to call the other part of children's aggression.

When some children persist in their aggressive behavior and are unable to control his strong temper, may be frustrated causing suffering and rejection of others. According to experts, the frustration and aggression makes an excellent breeding ground for aggressive behavior that is developed in children.


Limits against aggressive child behavior

The child's aggressive behavior is normal, but the challenge is to control it. Often causes the child to an adult so he can act in place and control his aggressive impulses because it can not do this. Therefore, the child needs a "do not do that" or "for that." Children sometimes ask for a fight. It is as if a check would borrow his father or his mother. Just as parents teach to walk, to talk or eat, their children should be taught also to control their aggression.

How to control the aggressiveness of the child

Be careful not to return their aggression with other aggression. The social learning theory states that aggressive behavior can be learned by imitation or observation of the behavior of aggressive models. It is very important, for example, that the child has to find a good model from their parents. Children relate to others in the same way they do their parents. If they maintain a relaxed relationship with others, the child will behave the same way in front of their friends. If the relationship is rather hostile, probably the child will follow that pattern of behavior.

Educating children is a difficult task that requires work. But it's worth trying it right, keep your balance and build consensus among parents in the education of children not occur double communication failures. If one parent allows everything and nothing else, that will confuse the child and probably will rebel.

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