Saturday, December 17, 2011

The link to the newborn


The newborn is a completely helpless, dependent entirely on their parents. Without their care and affection could not survive. That feeds into it a feeling of confidence that has been consolidated over the first year and is of vital importance. If the child can trust the caregivers will not see the world as a threatening place and also learn to trust others. For this to happen, give the baby what he needs at all times.

The baby needs someone with him that is sensitive to their demands and to transmit affection and security. This person is usually the mother. Between her and the newborn there is a strong bond that is established even before birth. When the relationship between them is strong and robust, the baby feels comfortable and secure, and become confident.


The mother can strengthen that bond every day security and trust with their attitude towards the child: for example, stroking crying or staring back at him when he looks. They are small patterns that contribute to strengthening the bonding experiences that are etched into the psyche of the baby and revived in him the feeling "I am important to my mom."

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